LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP

LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP....two different entities yet not so different..
It is said those who are in love have to be great friends..do you think it's true?yes I think

it's true.because a man said to me that physical appearances don't last long,what stays is love

and it is the one that binds them together(I am not speaking of crushes here).The love is the

one that never fades but rekindles as days go by.(o.k. I am not trying to speak as a know it

all but tell me what do you think?isn't it true?)..Some even prefer calling them "special

friends"..:-) They know how much he/she means to him/her. And again it's a friend.

But I am not here to preach the greatness of love but I want to take you to a different

journey..a question which has been mostly answered ideally,neglecting the reality.

I said that lovers should be great friends but is it true conversely?
I know many will explode saying that "ofcourse not".
But actually that doesnot happen ...at some point of life a great friend(of opposite sex)

becomes a little more than "only" a great friend.

I know any girl or even a male reading this will say it is not the case and it is absolutely

bulls***.

In a movie there was a line ,.."a girl and a boy can never be friends because it's always the

love that comes between them"
Many will agree and many wil not,but before you disagree think about it and try to remember

what happened to you..was it that your "love " was always your love or maybe in some point of

time he/she was a friend (before all that love "thing" happened)..think of it..
I am not pointing out that only girls or only boys are responsible, but it really happens and

it is natural and it is nothing to be ashamed of,because afterall we are humans.

It happens that someday you find telling yourself that he/she is only a friend and nothing

more(don't tell me you didn't have the thought),but tell me why you need to think like that if

you were so sure.

what do you think..am I right or wrong..don't have to answer now ..think about it..and then

post your comments..

(It is true that everything in this world has exceptions but nobody takes it into account while

speaking about anything generally.)
I don't know about girls but boys will agree with me that while it's time to propose it's the

males who have to do the "man's" job(again exceptions are always there).What girls do is give a

nice little smile or that mysterious look(that's the killer :)).
Usually unable to know the real feelings in the girl's heart the boy has to rely on looks and

give in thoughts to many things like "if i am rejected or otherwise ,will it effect our

friendship"and stuffs like that.Things that were normally a friend's act in the past ,now

becomes signs of the other being in love with him(I think you know what I am talking about).
Those touches which were mere playful things ,now becomes the way to interpret love.Those words

which irrated you and you often neglected them now it suddenly has some innermeaning which

directs nowhere but love.And what you think where it leads..I don't know..tell me..


P.S. But I want say to my friends that don't take it otherwise..it's the general circumstances

I am talked about and it's not the story of my life:-)